What is bullying? Bullying is everywhere. It’s that horrible
thing that destroys people’s happiness and life. Bullying is the big guy
picking on the little guys at lunch, the popular girls spreading rumors about
the nerdy one, or even the mentally challenged kid being made fun of everywhere
he goes. Bullying is the intelligent college student who committed suicide
after being humiliated via the internet by his best friend. I’m sure just about
everyone has either been a bystander to the horrors of bullying, heard about
someone (most likely a student,) who decided to end their life just to get away
from a bully, or have possibly even been bullied themselves. You may be
wondering what kind of a person would do this, possible reasons for it, and
even how they would go about bullying someone. Also going through your mind may
be thoughts about the dangers to a society a bully can cause.
Bullying plays a very dangerous role in society. In the case
of thousands of children every day, the stress of bullying is too much to even
handle going to school. For others, the same stress (although probably at a
much larger scale) causes them to do the unthinkable – end their misery
themselves – by committing suicide. In this year alone three people have killed
themselves as a result of severe bullying. Seventy five percent of all people
have been bullied at some time or another. That means that three out of every
four people have been trashed by a very mean person who has probably done the
same thing to several other people. When you bully someone, you risk their
happiness, and in some cases their life.
Now I will tell you about how you and any other person could
help to stop an instance of bullying anywhere. It may sound very simple, but as
you may already know it takes a very brave person to perform this act. It would
be completely normal if any person had nightmares about doing it: turning a
bully in. Many people never tell anyone about another person’s bullying or even
their own just because they are worried about the fact that they would most
likely become the bullies’ next target, or worse, being given a label such as
“snitch”, or in younger grades “tattle-tale”. By stepping past your own fears
and realizing how big of a difference you could make in someone's life, you
will not only free the world of another bully, but you will also find a deep
sense of amazement in yourself.
So that’s it. Now you know what bullying is. In summary,
almost all bullies have at least one thing, (if not several,) that is giving
them a reason to want to make themselves feel better by shoving someone to the
ground (literally and figuratively). They will use three main forms of bullying
to achieve this moment of happiness: Physical bullying, verbal bullying, and
cyber-bullying. In the end, bullying is very dangerous to people of all ages, and
isn’t acceptable ever. This is why you should never bully someone, allow
yourself to be bullied, or just stand by and watch a peer be bullied for any
reason.